Losing to Live
01/12/2026
“For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it.”
— Mark 8:35 (NIV)
Jesus speaks words here that run completely against our natural instincts. Everything in us wants to preserve, protect, and promote our own lives. We are taught from an early age to look out for ourselves, to secure our future, to build something that proves our worth. Yet Jesus looks us in the eye and says, If you cling too tightly to your life, you’ll lose it. But if you surrender it to Me, you’ll truly find it.
This isn’t about reckless living or self-hatred. It’s about ownership. Jesus is asking a deep question beneath the surface: Who is really in control of your life? When we insist on writing our own story, guarding our comfort, and chasing recognition, we may appear successful, but spiritually, something slowly withers. We end up busy, driven, and exhausted, yet strangely empty.
Jesus, on the other hand, invites us into a paradox. Losing our life for Him doesn’t mean disappearing; it means being transformed. It means laying down our agenda so we can take up His purpose. Think of the disciples, fishermen, tax collectors, ordinary people. When they left their nets and followed Jesus, they didn’t lose significance; they found it. What they released in obedience, God multiplied in impact.
Every day, we face small versions of this choice. Will I hold onto my pride, or will I choose humility? Will I cling to control, or will I trust God with the outcome? Will I live for comfort, or will I step into obedience even when it costs me something? Each decision is an invitation to lose a little, and in doing so, to live a lot.
Jesus never asks us to give up anything without offering something far greater in return. What we surrender to Him is never wasted. It is reshaped, redeemed, and returned with eternal purpose.
Today, take a moment to honestly ask yourself where you may be holding on too tightly. Is it a dream, a fear, a habit, or a version of life you’ve scripted without God? Release it into His hands. That’s where real life begins.
Action Steps:
• Identify one area where you are trying to stay in control instead of trusting God.
• Practice surrender by praying before making decisions today, big or small.
• Look for one opportunity to serve someone else without seeking recognition.
• Remind yourself that obedience always leads to deeper life, even when it feels costly.
Today’s Challenge:
It is simple but powerful: choose surrender over self-preservation in one intentional way.
Father, we confess that we often want to save our lives on our own terms. Teach us what it means to truly follow You. Help us release control, trust Your ways, and believe that You are good with every part of our lives. Give us the courage to lose what we must so we can gain what only You can give. We place our lives fully in Your hands today. Amen.
Pastor Jeff
#LoveGod #LovePeople #FindFreedom #FindYourDesign
“For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it.”
— Mark 8:35 (NIV)
Jesus speaks words here that run completely against our natural instincts. Everything in us wants to preserve, protect, and promote our own lives. We are taught from an early age to look out for ourselves, to secure our future, to build something that proves our worth. Yet Jesus looks us in the eye and says, If you cling too tightly to your life, you’ll lose it. But if you surrender it to Me, you’ll truly find it.
This isn’t about reckless living or self-hatred. It’s about ownership. Jesus is asking a deep question beneath the surface: Who is really in control of your life? When we insist on writing our own story, guarding our comfort, and chasing recognition, we may appear successful, but spiritually, something slowly withers. We end up busy, driven, and exhausted, yet strangely empty.
Jesus, on the other hand, invites us into a paradox. Losing our life for Him doesn’t mean disappearing; it means being transformed. It means laying down our agenda so we can take up His purpose. Think of the disciples, fishermen, tax collectors, ordinary people. When they left their nets and followed Jesus, they didn’t lose significance; they found it. What they released in obedience, God multiplied in impact.
Every day, we face small versions of this choice. Will I hold onto my pride, or will I choose humility? Will I cling to control, or will I trust God with the outcome? Will I live for comfort, or will I step into obedience even when it costs me something? Each decision is an invitation to lose a little, and in doing so, to live a lot.
Jesus never asks us to give up anything without offering something far greater in return. What we surrender to Him is never wasted. It is reshaped, redeemed, and returned with eternal purpose.
Today, take a moment to honestly ask yourself where you may be holding on too tightly. Is it a dream, a fear, a habit, or a version of life you’ve scripted without God? Release it into His hands. That’s where real life begins.
Action Steps:
• Identify one area where you are trying to stay in control instead of trusting God.
• Practice surrender by praying before making decisions today, big or small.
• Look for one opportunity to serve someone else without seeking recognition.
• Remind yourself that obedience always leads to deeper life, even when it feels costly.
Today’s Challenge:
It is simple but powerful: choose surrender over self-preservation in one intentional way.
Father, we confess that we often want to save our lives on our own terms. Teach us what it means to truly follow You. Help us release control, trust Your ways, and believe that You are good with every part of our lives. Give us the courage to lose what we must so we can gain what only You can give. We place our lives fully in Your hands today. Amen.
Pastor Jeff
#LoveGod #LovePeople #FindFreedom #FindYourDesign
Recent
Archive
2026
January
2025
January
Embracing the New ThingBe TransformedPleasing God, Not PeopleThe Power of Repentance and BaptismThe Power of Forgiveness and LoveLiving in the LightSharing the Good NewsRecognizing and Worshiping the Son of ManStand Firm, Unmovable, AboundingThe Power of TogethernessResting in God’s RhythmThe Greatness of GodHeld by His HandLoving Beyond LimitsSowing RighteousnessThe Danger of Self-RelianceHeld by His HandProclaiming His Glory to AllHonoring One Another In LoveHidden TreasureTrusting God’s PlansThe Treasure of the KingdomStay Alert and Be PreparedGuarding Against GreedA House DividedYou Are the Light of the WorldEars to HearAll For The OneThe Beginning of WisdomUnashamed of the Gospel
February
Drawing Near with ConfidenceDaily Bread and Daily TrustEvery Good and Perfect GiftA Call to BlessingWalking by the SpiritStrength in the Lord’s RewardThe Power of Your WordsLiving in the Grace of GodOvercoming Evil with GoodPerfect Peace in an Imperfect WorldFrom Death to LifeOvercoming Evil with GoodResting in God’s WorkA Friend Who Loves at All TimesThe Lord Delights Over YouGo Into All the WorldImitating What Is GoodStrength in WeaknessBe Still and KnowTake Heart in Troubled TimesGuarded by God’s PeacePursuing PeacePeace That Cannot Be ShakenLiving Out the Law of LoveBlessing the Poor, Honoring the LordSinging of God’s Strength and LoveWorthy, Worthy, WorthyA Vision of Heaven’s Multitude
March
Go and Make DisciplesBe Strong and CourageousChoosing the Path of LifeUnchanging in a Changing WorldRedeemed by GraceWalking in Step with the SpiritPutting Faith into PracticeGo and Tell the Good NewsDwelling in the Shelter of the Most HighBehold, the Lamb of GodTo Live is Christ, To Die is GainSwallowed by GraceFor Such a Time as ThisSeeking Wisdom from GodBe MercifulA Heart That Seeks GodExtending Mercy to the DoubtfulThe Word Was GodThe Knock at Your Heart’s DoorThe Sacrifice That Pleases GodSharpening Souls TogetherMade for RestA Way OutApproved and UnashamedAll InClothed with CompassionLove That CoversRoots That Never Run DryRemain in MeThe Great Exchange
No Comments